“The biggest mistake most people make is to think that they have time...

My job is to disabuse you of that notion.”

We often wait too long to start living a life of our own design.

A cancer diagnosis, the loss of a loved one, or major life change like divorce reminds us that life is too short to settle for less than our dreams demand.

We know that there is so much more for us.

The time is now.

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I felt like a failure...

2010

I remember the conversation like it was yesterday.

My then- wife said that we "don't share anymore," and asked about my day.

"It was the same day I had yesterday, and probably will have again tomorrow," I said.

We were in a rut, allowing life to happen to us rather than making life happen for us.

A handful of years later, after two trial separations, we were divorced.

Today

I have so much gratitude for the crooked trail behind me and the possibilities that lie ahead.

Life has purpose because I am intentional- prioritizing family, adventure, and service to others.

My wife is not just a spouse and a mother, but a partner in travel, in type II fun, and in laughter, always.

I learned that becoming the best version of myself was not about me, but about how I can show up for others.

My "superpowers"

Perspective

It's hard to read the label from inside the bottle.

Having a viewpoint from the outside can be invaluable in identifying patterns, beliefs, and roadblocks.

Inspiration

Why settle for good enough or getting by? There is so much more out there!

You may not believe it, but I KNOW it- you're worth it.

Accountability

Small habits are the key to permanent change.

They are also boring.

As the author, James Clear notes, "An accountability partner can create an immediate cost to inaction."

I'm here to help keep you on track.

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This has been an incredible experience. When [my wife] left, I spent 2 years just being spiteful. I've learned to move on as a better version of me.

I wish I'd met you 5 years earlier!

Jamie G

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My ego was dented. I felt like 'I'm still here, he's moved on.' This work has helped me see my own storylines and to become better, not bitter.

Claudia S

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There were so many things I didn't do while just trying to make the marriage work. I've learned to put myself first without feeling selfish or guilty.

Amanda C

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About Allen...

I am a father, husband, coach, outdoor guide, educator, and middling endurance athlete who believes that small changes make a BIG difference.

I believe that when we identify the patterns in our lives, we are able to make changes to create the best versions of ourselves.

I know that divorce is devastating. I also know that we can come through on the other side not just as survivors, but as examples who can provide hope and inspiration for others.

I'd be honored to hear your story, and to help you write the next chapters.

Cheers,